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给新好男人沉重打击!男人干家务越多离婚率越高 [复制链接]

发表于 2015-10-29 22:39:41 |显示全部楼层
近日,英国《每日电讯报》报道,挪威研究人员近日进行的一项调查结果显示:很多年轻夫妻都协议分工干家务,但是这类夫妻比妻子将家务全包的夫妻离婚率高得多。报道称,这项调查结果看似在打性别平等的嘴巴。调查结果显示分工干家务的夫妻比妻子全包家务的夫妻的离婚率高出约50%。数据中国男人做家务比女人少74分钟。

男人干家务越多离婚率越高,这恐怕给一些新星好男人一个沉重的打击。但事实果然如此?挪威的这项调查报告能够相信吗?丁丁认为,在男女关系由男强女弱转型到男女平等的这个过程中,我们恐怕还不得不承认,这项调查确实有一定的依据,尤其对于中国目前的夫妻来说确实是如此。具体理由应该

包括以下三个方面:
一是男主外女主内的传统观念让干家务的男人压力太大。几千年来,中国夫妻一直是男主外女主内的模式,这说明了男人在外工作,没有时间料理家务是男人本色,说明了男人会挣钱,能够挣钱养家,而正是因为男人挣的收入是家庭主要的经济来源,所以,男人就无须做家务,家务都交给妻子做。现在,男人竟然做家务,那说明这对夫妻中的男主角挣的收入不高,需要女主角外出挣钱,这样的男人会认为没有出息,还需要女人挣钱养家。男人在这种观念的压迫下,有可能承受不了压力而提出离婚,这也是为什么大多数的男人不愿意娶比自己优秀的女人为妻的根本原因了。

二是确实有些男人没有或很少有收入来源,只能干家务,让妻子瞧不起。当前,女性日益崛起,女性在各个行业日益和男人平起平坐、公平竞争,这样,女性挣钱的机会就越来越和男性差不多甚至比男人还多。既然女性有了挣钱的机会,甚至有可能还超过男性,就必然导致一部分男性没有了挣钱机会,那就必须出现部分家庭由女人挣钱养家的可能。但是,这个时候的女性就自认为自己的男人没有本事,还要靠她养,即使男人包干所有家务,那也从内心瞧不起,这正是当前先崛起来的一部分女性的一种心里反应,经济基础决定上层建筑,所以,这批先崛起的女性在家庭中的地位就很高,对于只会干家务的老公自然是一百个不满意,日积月累,对男人的不满意就会越蓄越高,尤其是看到别人的男人那么有本事,而自己的家庭竟然要靠自己来挑风雨,所以,一旦时机成熟,就有可能提出离婚。

三是夫妻分担家务可能会引起争吵而导致感情破裂。现在的夫妻,一般都有各自的工作,所以,相互承担家务就越来越成为当代夫妻显著的特征。但是,家务到底如何分担,这可不是一件容易的事,何况,双方的工作性质不同,下班的时间也不一致,还有,有的明明已经下班,但由于加班、陪客、会朋友等方面的实际问题,尤其还有偷懒的可能,原来说好的家务就有可能打乱或实现不了,这样,因为家务夫妻而争吵的可能性就会增加。而既然夫妻双方都有工作,都有收入来源,随着夫妻争吵的次数越来越多,夫妻的感情自然就会容易出问题,男女平等,谁怕谁,因家务争吵甚至打架最后就有可能离婚。

其实,男人干家务越多离婚率越高,这只是女性崛起过程中必然的一种体现,一方面是男人的一种失落,另一方面是崛起女性的一种失望。随着男女平等真正实现,谁养家谁干家务的分工就不分性别了,而且人们的世俗观念也会随之而改变,那个时候,男人干家务越多离婚率越高的这种情形自然就会减少,甚至不是离婚的主要原因了,何况,在当下,越来越多的夫妻正在分享家务,或者已有不少家庭由男人承包家务,由女人负责养家的模式正在日益形成,而且也正在搭建一种新的家庭关系平衡,传统的夫妻关系正在打破。所以,挪威的这项研究成果只具有阶段性,并不是永恒的规律,而且在许多男女观念已经平等的国家,这种现象几乎就不存在。

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